Give Respect Get Respect

In last few days I was busy in my own world that I had hardly notice what happened around the world, that sound stupid naa... How can I ignore the world m living in it?
 It was very hectic and stressful week to deal with. From incomplete assignments to misunderstanding or I should probably use the word “cat fight” with my close friends ... and yeah my first experience to leave the exam hall without answering the questions correctly in my one and half year college life. Hmmm ... now you can possibly relate to my situation,
 well this is a part of life that occurs after every interval in everyone’s life. Ending are happy but that does not mean the whole story will be right?

Well this happened in my world, this was neither interesting nor has anything important that I should share it in the blog. What was interesting is the situation I came across around the world
after my busy schedule i decided to go for shopping with my mom to the near by market when i was returning back. "tjhe sharm nai ate bhudhe umar dkhi apne kya bakwass kar raha hai"i heard this sound and then  i saw a girl literally yelling at an old man who was sitting on wheel chair
 I got so angry with that situation that i felt like scolding that girl but when i inquired i got to know a different angle of the story. 
it was not girl's mistake that old man was abusing her mother just because she was standing in front of him and begging for food and "prasad"
after knowing the exact situation, i felt happy and proud for that girl the way she tackled the situation, the way she stand up for her mother's respect.
from the very beginning we were taught to respect our elderly people no matter how they speak, behave or if even ignore us. at some point it is important to give respect to them as they our elders but do we really give respect to them dil se??
is that true only the  age factor is responsible for giving respect not the behavior??
in my opinion if you give respect you will get respect for sure, maybe i will not say anything just because the age but yes i wont have any good feeling from them either.

when you friend become your colleague!!!

hmmm... now how should i react?? on this thing. 
In your college times there are your friends to support and help you. they are said to be your support builder, care taker, fun maker, they are the reason of your attendance in college and similarly they are the reason for your low attendance in college, you don't want to share them with anyone and at the same time  you share everything with them.
 college friendship is one relation which teaches you the real importance of relations and emotions and beside all emotional drama you also get to have life time fun at this pint of time so... this how it seems to be huh? everything fun and easy. but wait picture abhe baki hai mere dost this no the ending and hopefully the end will be nice and sweet.
after all the college fun there comes the internship the real practical exam of your college studies. there rush, a race for getting or i should say grabbing the opportunity  to get internship in best organization. what if the blessing are on and you got your internship in quite known organization and fortunately (you misunderstood it that's why its a fortune for you ) your  friend becomes your colleague or he/she gets the opportunity to be your head.
the happy story of college friendship ends up here my dear trust me!!
now it is competition  time and you are racing with all your loveable friends who will not leave any way to let you down. this not the time to get pissed off or shatter down give them back the same competition, it is the time  when friendship is tested dnt worry if you fall down because you will fall down one or the other way. stay there,  play wise play healthy competition. 
postive thinking is the utmost important weapon to survive because a postive thinker sees an opportunity in every difficulty. 
at the end it is not internship that will stay with you forever it is essence of friendship that will matter. :) 

every day i get to learn new things.. sometimes it is a academic lesson and some time moral lesson.
we have to compromise with some or the other decision of our life. same thing happened with me. i was all set for a college bunk with my friends after such a long time but life is so unpredictable that it never goes according to our plans, i was asked by my teacher to stay in college for some work in broadcasting club and it was the first time for me to get chance to do anchoring, coming on camera, hosting a show alone by myself. so its the decision making time to ditch my friends by not going with them for the movie or ignore my only chance to be a part of such great thing. i became selfish i ditch my friends went for the show :( i was happy and sad, i was confuse, but i don't regret my decision i was ok  with it. although i had a fight with friends. they didn't appreciate  my work.  but lastly it was great work, i enjoyed it and fight got sorted out. one thing came into mind so sometime is it bad to be selfish?? naah.. it is not, one has to be selfish, one has to think about themselves as well, one has to haina?? you don't became bad or you don't commit any sin. you just do it for yourself. kuki at the end when your work will going to stay with you forever and if you have understanding friends like i have then double dhamakaa.. :)

its my first time to write a blog...
i have no idea what to write but i have to start one day. when i told my friend that i am going to write blog he was quite impressed and his first suggestion was to write something sensible and mature, for minute i got  confused what is a sensible writing??
is it writing on such topic which are beyond imagination of people of my age group or using heavy words from dictionary so that i have a good impression, hmm.. nah... for me mature writing is in which i can express things around me, and i can explain whats happening i don't need heavy words for that i just want my mind to be clear and i should have enough words to express those feelings.
so.. from now i will write mature,